Intj and intp dating
I know relying to /r/intj for dating advice is not remotely sensible, but I'm interested in hearing your thoughts. Things are going great, but I was disappointed to learn she's an ESTJ.
It seems we are like water and oil according to MBTI, but we can't see it because we have the romance goggles on at the moment.
I would write down the fashionable things she mentioned she liked, and tried to develop an eye for the stylish things she liked.
My ex was trendy, somewhat shallow, and while she wasn't emotional on the surface, her love was on fire and deliberate.
Plus you won't have an Fi-Fe conflict, which seems to be at the root of another relationship I know which is struggling a bit.I think it will be prudent for you to take an interest in her interests.My ex loved receiving gifts, so I'd buy her boots and rings, perfume and makeup.MBTI is just a guideline to further understand yourself and other people, but we're not so cookie-cuttered humans. If everything is going good right now, I wouldn't worry about it too much.This a great time to go with the flow and to be more in the moment instead of controlling the outcome.