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I was not ready to trust a teenage boy with that information.I wondered what would happen if the whole city found out.Because of that, it is nearly impossible for me to give anyone the virus. When it comes to sleeping with someone, I expect both of us to be honest with each other.I think people have this misconception that it is only an HIV-positive person’s responsibility to have their health in check. I would expect my partner to be tested for everything and for us to be open with each other.I was not open with any of my peers, even my high school best friend who caught me crying a few times.When my parents died, I didn’t tell people why either. I’ve also been told that I’m “really mature” and “act older than I am,” which I choose to view as compliments.You see, the problem with dating guys my age is that instead of a date, our dinners often morph into an HIV/AIDS Q&A session once they learn my status.
I wondered if he told his family they might think I was “dirty.” Or think my parents were.
My viral load (i.e., the amount of HIV cells in my body) is undetectable.
That’s not always the case for everyone who is HIV positive, but it is the case for me.
If I’m being honest, the fact that he didn’t know much about HIV probably turned me off a bit too.
And he wasn’t the only date to turn a romantic meal into a classroom session.