Am i dating a misogynist
Instead, I had to read through long messages where she dumped everything on me at once and expected me to just accept it with grace.I knew what was coming and I figured that she wouldn’t be direct enough to say it.Even though I wasn’t the most charming guy (I’m still not), I didn’t have a problem being around girls.Every chance I got, I tried talking to a girl, even if it was just to say hi.
For most of 2017 and part of 2018, I had this mindset that women (especially Christian women) couldn’t be trusted. But I wouldn’t go out of my way to be best friends with them. None of them deserved my trust, so I convinced myself to not open up to them and to remain cordial at best. I’m supposed to love my sisters, yet here I am doing everything in my power to push them away.And she did this through Facebook Messenger, which didn’t make it any better. I’ve been through this before and it wasn’t like we’re dating, to begin with.I wouldn’t mind taking a back seat and supporting her from afar.As far as I knew, they all hated me and so I hated them back in return. This very conflict led me to reflect on my previous female friendships and ask some difficult questions.Is it possible that my trust issues are a result of failed relationships and unmet expectations?